Art of the dumped

 This sucks.  It really does.  But it seems there is no formula or pill to getting someone out of your system except time.  It's like a ferocious hangover when you care about someone and are rejected. You keep checking for emails for texts but nothing ever comes.  You can't pick up the phone and call because there really is nothing left to say except you handing over your ego and groveling.  You should move on.  You know you should move on. You have to move on but you can't.

I can only imagine how it feels when you not only get dumped but they go away without giving you a reason.  At least that was there so there is some solace. Introducing someone else may help in the short term but if you are still chemically connected to your thoughts of this other person, it's hard to focus.